of many reasons...

We struggle in life because of a persistent routine of wanting life to be different from what it is: The room you are in is too humid, you don’t like your occupation, or your partner is not quite the person of your dreams. You adjust the thermostat, get a new job, or tell your partner what you need. Now it’s too cool, you are making less money, or your partner has found some imperfections in you. The more we try to make life conform to our desires, the more we struggle, and the more we suffer. The only solution to this vicious cycle is to accept what arises, completely ; in other words, do nothing.